Rate my text before I send it
Paste the text you’re about to send. Brolivo scores it from 1 to 10, tells you how she’ll probably read it, what hurts it and what works, and writes a better version with its own score. Free, no sign-up.
Your draft · first message
hey :) how’s it going? what are you up to?
3/10Needs workHow it could come across
Polite, but the easiest reply is “good, nothing much”.
- Two generic questions
- Nothing about her
- Friendly tone
Better version
Your text: 3 out of 10. Better version: 8 out of 10.
Saw your story from the mountains. Where is that? Looks like a place work chats can’t reach.
Why it works:A detail about her and a question she’ll enjoy answering.
She texted and you don’t know what to say?Find my next reply
Find my next replyHow it works
Paste your draft
The text you’re about to send, as it is. Add her last message if you want the score to fit the chat.
Get the score
A score out of 10, a possible reading, and specific notes on what is clear or could add pressure.
Choose your own wording
Compare the suggestion with your draft. Keep only what fits the real conversation and your own voice.
Examples
Your text
First chat · so are you seeing anyone?
The check
This jumps straight to relationship status. If you want to ask about dating, make your intention clear: “I’d like to get to know you. Are you open to a date?”
Whether to ask depends on your conversation; no wording guarantees a welcome response.
Your text
had fun tonight, let’s do it again sometime
The check
6/10: warm but vague, “sometime” gives her nothing to say yes to. Better, 8/10: “Had fun tonight. Round two at that taco place on Friday?”
A day and a place turn a nice thought into a plan.
Examples · made-up chats
Two drafts, checked
Example · her story shows the mountains
hey :) how’s it going? what are you up to?
Polite, but the easiest reply is “good, nothing much”.
- Two generic questions
- Nothing about her
- Friendly tone
Better version
Saw your story from the mountains. Where is that? Looks like a place work chats can’t reach.
why:Uses the story detail supplied in this example and asks one clear question.
Example · she mentioned starting a new job
sorry if I’m bothering you, I know you’re busy, just wanted to say hi
The draft focuses on whether you are interrupting, without offering a topic.
- Assumes you are interrupting
- No clear topic to answer
Better version
Hey! How’s the new job going?
why:Returns to the new job mentioned in this example. Use that detail only if she actually told you about it.
What the check looks at
Is it about her?
A real detail from the conversation gives her a clearer topic than a generic request to tell you about herself.
Is it easy to answer?
One clear question or move beats three questions or a wall of text.
Does it match her energy?
About as long and as warm as her messages, not twice as much.
Does it add pressure?
Apologies, guilt, “why aren’t you answering” and repeated asks get flagged.
Is the plan concrete?
When you ask her out, a day and a short format make a yes or a no easy.
What makes a text easy to answer
Start with what you actually want to say. A detail from your conversation and one clear question can make a draft easier to follow. Leave out invented shared interests and requests for reassurance. Length matters less than whether the message is clear and leaves her free to answer.
When to send it as is
If your draft is clear, respectful and sounds like you, a rewrite may add little. Read the reasons instead of chasing a perfect score. Keep a suggestion only when it improves what you wanted to say; the tool cannot know how she will react.
Questions
How do I know if my text is good?
Check whether your meaning is clear, whether the message fits your conversation and whether it adds pressure. One specific question is usually easier to answer than several at once. The tool offers reasons and a score to compare, not a prediction of her response.
Should I apologize in a text after a long pause?
Usually not more than once. One light “sorry, crazy week” is fine, but repeated apologies make her reassure you instead of talking. Lead with something about her: a question about her week or something she mentioned before.
Is Check my text free?
Yes. Checking your texts is free and needs no sign-up, within a fair daily limit. The score and the better version are suggestions: keep what sounds like you and send what you want.
What happens to the text I enter?
Your text goes to third-party AI services only to prepare your result, and they apply their own retention terms. Brolivo keeps no text on its servers; recent results can stay in this browser tab’s local history. Leave out private details. The privacy policy explains the rest.